Silly Life Ambitions

Some silly life ambitions I hope to achieve in my life, and if I don’t achieve them all … that’s okay.

You Don’t Have To Learn How To Love Yourself By Yourself

“You always look like you’re in a rush. I see you walking around, and it’s like you always have somewhere to be.” Or something like that. My friend said something to that essence once when we were in high school. It caught me off guard and left me confused, but I’m glad she said it…

Being in a Relationship is Like Having a Job

You know traditionally how we use “he”/”him” as a default for referring to another person? I want to switch it up and use “she”/”her” pronouns because it’s 2018. Know that I am usually referring to both “he”/”him” and “she”/”her”, so I kindly ask you to adjust your mindset going into this post. If you can’t,…

2018 Let’s Be Friends

I touched a little bit on one aspect of my transition from 2017 into 2018 in my other post. If you are curious about a little of my perspective on God and how that played out in 2017, please read that post first. I loved 2017. It was my year. A year of growth, self-love,…

God in My 2017

2017. You did good. You did well? I don’t know. Good sounds better just for the sake of an opening line. 2017 was the biggest year of growth and transition in my life thus far. The biggest lessons I learned, those 365 days we deemed part of 2017, were: how to truly love myself, how…

Depression Is Not Just Being Sad

I absolutely hate when people minimize what depression is. “Oh, you’re just sad.” “Oh, just be happy.” “What do you mean you can’t talk to people? It’s easy.” “Just talk to people.” “Get over it.” “Oh I’ll just get over it, I guess.” The penultimate (second to last) phrase is the worst thing to say…